This is Part 5 and the final installment of my series, “On (Not) Finding a Church.” Apologies for the long hiatus since I published Part 4 in May of 2023.
Thank you for this Judy. I’ve been tracking with your journey, and it’s been so good to have this latest chapter. So wise to point us to the parable of the wheat and tares, and consider who does the harvesting? It’s not our job. I think there is a deep grief many hold in churches, on the edge of church and those who have left. But I’m thankful that God is close to the broken hearted, and who knows what the next chapter will be in their lives? His love always gives us a reason to hope, even while we lament and grieve. Thank you for bringing these topics out for us to consider.
I am moved by your deep vulnerability. Because I too faced church with a sense of idealism, but encountered the grievous side of community, your insight has led me to deeper introspection of my own need for belonging. Thank you! I hope to see more of your writing soon.
Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable with your readers. It signifies a deep trust, despite your experiences. I will be facilitating a discussion on the kin(g)dom of God as home this summer. Your Part 5 will be helpful to keep in mind as participants reflect on their childhood homes and styles of parenting. I especially appreciate the quote from Rabbi Heschel.
Thank you for this Judy. I’ve been tracking with your journey, and it’s been so good to have this latest chapter. So wise to point us to the parable of the wheat and tares, and consider who does the harvesting? It’s not our job. I think there is a deep grief many hold in churches, on the edge of church and those who have left. But I’m thankful that God is close to the broken hearted, and who knows what the next chapter will be in their lives? His love always gives us a reason to hope, even while we lament and grieve. Thank you for bringing these topics out for us to consider.
I am moved by your deep vulnerability. Because I too faced church with a sense of idealism, but encountered the grievous side of community, your insight has led me to deeper introspection of my own need for belonging. Thank you! I hope to see more of your writing soon.
So many of your words resonated with me and childhood experiences that I'm still wrestling through and reconciling. Thank you so much for sharing!
“It’s not just disappointment I’ve had to process but a lifetime of grief totally unrelated to the church.”
So glad I stumbled across this … I’m working through similar emotions after an experience of church abuse. Good reminders here.
Praying for God to meet you every step of the way with grace, encouragement, and reassurance as you process everything, Joy.
This is so good.
Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable with your readers. It signifies a deep trust, despite your experiences. I will be facilitating a discussion on the kin(g)dom of God as home this summer. Your Part 5 will be helpful to keep in mind as participants reflect on their childhood homes and styles of parenting. I especially appreciate the quote from Rabbi Heschel.
Me too. Me too. Me too.